11 Secrets on How to Be a Better Girlfriend

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#1 Have your own life

Your life is not your boyfriend, your life is your life. The reason he's attracted to you is totally because you are super happy going after what you wanted and having your life. The biggest mistake people make is, once they get into a relationship they start stopping things that they actually enjoy and sometimes, putting all the burden on the other person.

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#2 Make yourself happy

You have the power to make yourself happy,and he does not. It's not his responsibility to make you happy and it should never be that way. Why count on someone who is not gonna be able to do that every single second of the day? It's not his job description. If you can make yourself happy and he's making himself happy, and you come together and you multiply that happiness. It's so much easier that way and it's just so much more comfortable.

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 #3 Make yourself orgasm

Make yourself have the best orgasm you can ever have. Not only sitting there in bed waiting for him to create and produce this orgasm within you and then getting disappointed. You've got to take control of your own pleasure in your body and allowing yourself to feel that down there, allow yourself to feel it. it is not his job nor his prerogative, so there's no reason to be disappointed.

Be a better girlfriend by knowing your body, how you respond to touch and how you can train yourself to create more of these pleasurable experiences so that he can see you pleasured by yourself and that turns him on tremendously.

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#4 Be honest and vulnerable

If you are pissed off at any moment in time, be honest own it, tell it, don't be passive-aggressive.

#5 WTF 

There's so many people that give silent treatment. Why waste energy or why waste time? Just be direct, be courageous, be brave and own your emotions. If you're mad at something, talk about it and figure out a way to resolve it unless you want to have all this negativity around you. 

But if your goal is to stay positive, happy and healthy do yourself a favor and directly communicate your feelings by being open and respectful. Honor other people's opinion as well if you want to be a better girlfriend.

#6 Response vs. Reaction

Whenever you get triggered by your boyfriend or triggered by another friend, instead of responding straight away by screaming just take some time and don't react in a way that affects other people. Take a deep breath, release and breath again.

When you are going through a hard time and you have a lot of emotions, don't spew it on other people and take responsibility for your energy. Do your part to resolve it and once you resolve it then you'll be in a much better place to approach him. Just be honest about it, be open and have direct communication. 

Be brave and know that the person who's meant to be with you will love you. They will stand up for you, they will chase you, they will not let you go and there are people out there who will give that to you. You don't deserve someone who's not able to hold that space with you or be honest with you. If you’re gonna be working through this together, you'll become even stronger.

#7 See yourself as a team

You're in this relationship as a team. Even if it's only a one-year, a one-month relationship or a forever thing that you think will be forever, whatever it is, you are on a team together and facing the world together. Don't fight against each other, don't say who’s right or wrong. What matters is you are going in the same direction together.

#8 Lots of kisses cuddles

Understand five levels of love languages, give them freely if that’s what will make you so happy. Even if you're mad at someone, give love to them. Love really does cure a lot of negativity and show your best love that you can. You might never be with this person forever and it's so beautiful to be able to just take the opportunity to give everything you have.

#9 Support His dreams

Be that person who supports him no matter what half his back let him fall and you know just be there for him like that's all he wants he wants to know that he can please you honestly which means like step number three making yourself orgasm is a huge way that he can please you and if you can teach him and train him and he wants to know that he's your man you know and that's them and you can tell them that he loves that right like they love men just love being as a person who you depend on they want to be protecting you they want to be the one who guards you

#10 You've got to receive that love too

#11 Give him space

Give him freedom, just let him be let him chase after his dreams. Support his dreams and do what that is.

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