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How to be a BETTER Girlfriend?

11 Secrets on How to Be a Better Girlfriend

Embracing the journey of love!

If you want to make your relationship stronger, healthier and happier, don’t just wish for your guy to be a better man but also give yourself the opportunity to be a better girlfriend!

Imagine stepping into a world where every moment with your partner sparkles with the magic of understanding and deep connection.

Being a girlfriend isn't just a role; it's an art, a dance of hearts syncing in rhythm.

It's about weaving a tapestry of moments filled with joy, empathy, and growth.

In this journey, you're not just a partner; you're a muse, an inspiration, a guiding light.

Let's embark on this enchanting voyage together, transforming the ordinary into the extraordinary, nurturing a bond that's as deep as the ocean and as high as the stars.

Want to know more secrets on how to keep your relationship strong, inspiring and healthy? Here’s to being the best you and naturally, the "best" girlfriend ever!

Having your own life that creates joy will add to your better girlfriend

1.

Being in a fabulous relationship doesn't mean losing your sparkle – quite the opposite! It's all about dancing together while keeping your own magical rhythm.

Your life is a dazzling symphony, not just a duet. Your partner is drawn to the radiant energy you bring into the relationship because you're out there, chasing your dreams, and living your best life.

Sweetheart, here's a little secret: Maintaining your independence is the key to keeping the romance alive!

Don't fall into the trap of giving up the things you love just because love came knocking on your door. Your passions and interests are the glitter that makes you shine, and trust me, your partner is loving every moment of it!

So, keep being the amazing, independent soul that you are.

Embrace your desires, chase your dreams, and share the joy with your partner.

Because, my dear, a truly magical relationship is built on the foundation of two individuals flourishing together, not on one person carrying all the weight. 

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Unlocking Radiance: How to Be a Better Girlfriend by Mastering the Art of Making Yourself Happy 


2.

Darling, you hold the magical wand to your own happiness! ✨ Your joy is your creation, and it's a masterpiece only you can paint.

Sweet soul, let me tell you a little secret:

Happiness is an inside job, and it's a task that's solely yours. It's not his duty, and it should never be. Your partner is there to add to your happiness, not to carry the entire load. -@haniabundance

Never, ever rely on someone else to hand you the key to joy.

Be the architect of your own bliss! It's not in his job description to be your happiness provider.

Instead, envision this: both of you, independently crafting your own happiness, and when you come together, it's like a magical fusion of joy, a symphony of shared smiles and laughter.

So, my dear, take charge of your happiness, let him do the same, and when your happiness dances together, oh, the harmony is simply enchanting!

It's a partnership of two happy souls, making life much more joyful and comfortable. Own your happiness, and let it radiate like the sun! ☀️

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Turn your own pleasure into an irresistible show that turns him into your biggest fan

3.

Be a better girlfriend by knowing your body, how you respond to touch and how you can train yourself to create more of these pleasurable experiences so that he can see you pleasured by yourself and that turns him on tremendously.

Oh, darling, it's time to embark on the journey to the most divine pleasure you've ever known! ????✨ Take the reins of your own pleasure carousel and let it spin with ecstasy.

Feel it, gorgeous! Let yourself revel in the magic down there. It's your own personal symphony of sensation waiting to be conducted by the maestro that is you. Allow every note of pleasure to resonate through your being.

Now, here's a little secret to being the most enchanting girlfriend:

Become the maestro of your own pleasure orchestra! Know the melodies that make your body sing, understand every note of your response to touch, and let yourself be the virtuoso who creates the most delightful experiences.

Picture this, love:

You, basking in the glow of your own pleasure, and guess what? It's not just about you—it's an irresistible show that turns him into your biggest fan! 

Your self-discovery and pleasure mastery become the most captivating performance, igniting his desire in a way that's utterly irresistible.

So, my enchanting muse, take control, explore, and let the magic of self-pleasure elevate your connection to new heights. You've got the power to orchestrate a symphony of pleasure that leaves both of you in awe. ????????

Unlocking the Art of Connection: How to Be a Better Girlfriend Through Honesty and Vulnerability

4.

So, let's break it down – the difference between honesty and vulnerability is like sipping on your favorite tea and diving into a warm bubble bath.

Here's the Honest-tea: Honesty is all about speaking the truth, laying it out on the table like a spread of your favorite desserts. You say it like it is, no sugar-coating, just the raw, unfiltered truth.

Now, imagine soaking in that bubble bath: Vulnerability, my dear, is about opening up in a way that leaves you a bit exposed. It's like sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings, knowing that it might make you feel a tad uncomfortable. There's a risk – you might get disappointed, let down, judged, or hurt. But, oh, the beauty lies in that openness.

Now, here's a little mantra for you: If something's not sitting right in your heart at any given moment, spill the tea of honesty, own it, and let it flow. Tell it like you're pouring your heart out in your favorite diary. Because, love, your feelings are valid, and expressing them is like adding a sprinkle of authenticity to your beautiful self. 

So, don't be afraid to own your truth and let it shine! 

How to Be a Better Girlfriend: Embracing Authenticity – Be Direct About Your Feelings

5. Communication: The Heart of the Relationship

Sweet soul, let's talk about the silent treatment – a game that many play, but why, oh why?

Save your energy, darling, and let's cut to the chase.

Be direct, be courageous, and brave the path of your emotions.

Feeling a storm brewing inside? Don't let it linger like a persistent cloud.

Talk it out, my dear.

Dive into those emotions, figure out the puzzle,  heal, and let the sunlight in. Who needs to carry around all that negativity anyway?

Now, here's the golden ticket to staying positive, happy, and healthy – direct communication.

Be open, be respectful, and let your feelings flow. Imagine a river of emotions, and you're navigating it with a graceful dance. 

Oh, and a little secret to being a stellar girlfriend? Honor his opinions. 

It's like a dance floor – everyone's got their moves, and respecting that adds a touch of harmony.

So, be the conductor of your emotions, and let the symphony of communication play on! 

And on rare occasions you feel a little clingy? I've got an article and video for you on that here. 

Communication is the bridge between two hearts.

It's about creating a sanctuary where words flow like a gentle stream, carrying thoughts, dreams, and sometimes, unspoken fears. Listen to his words, but also to the silence between them. It's in this quietude that you'll find the deepest emotions waiting to be heard.

And when you speak, let your words be laced with honesty and kindness, weaving a tapestry of trust and understanding. Remember, good communication is a melody composed by two hearts in harmony, each note resonating with love and empathy.

Navigating Love's Dance: Mastering the Art of "How to Be a Better Girlfriend" – Response vs. Reaction 

6. Response vs. Reaction 

When those triggers hit, whether it's your boyfriend or a friend causing a ruckus in your emotions, resist the urge to let out a scream that could wake the neighbors.

Instead, hit the pause button, take a moment to collect yourself, and refrain from unleashing a reaction that could send shockwaves through everyone around.

Inhale, exhale – let's turn that chaos into calm. Now, when life throws you a curveball and emotions are swirling like a storm, resist the temptation to spill it all over unsuspecting souls.

Own your emotional weather, take charge of your energy. Try meditation (here are some of mine).

Sort out your emotional landscape before involving others. Once you've weathered the storm within, approach your boyfriend with nothing but pure, unfiltered honesty.

Skip the dramatics, lay it all out openly, and engage in direct communication. It's about resolving the issue straightforwardly, creating a clear path to understanding.

So, take a deep breath, find your center, and handle it with honesty and grace. 

Unlocking Relationship Bliss: How to Be a Better Girlfriend by Embracing Team Spirit

How can we manage conflicts more constructively?

6. See yourself as a team

In your relationship, it's not just the two of you, it's a power-packed team taking on the world side by side.

Feel the magic of unity as you face life's adventures hand in hand, turning ordinary moments into extraordinary memories.

Now, toss away the notion of right or wrong, and embrace the beauty of where you can find common ground - Cocreation - a topic I love supporting the people I work with. 

In this journey, the crucial part is that you're both moving individually, and in parallel, navigating the twists and turns and coming back together.

It's not about the destination; it's about reveling in the joy of being on a similar path, creating a unique and shared love story that unfolds with each shared step. ✨

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Unlocking the Art of Affection: How to Be a Better Girlfriend with Lots of Kisses and Cuddles 

8. Lots of kisses cuddles

Unleash the magic of love languages, words of affirmation, touch, acts of service, quality time or gifts, let that add to their world.

Give them freely, and watch happiness unfold and sprinkle positivity. 

Even in the heat of anger, don't hold back on love – shower them with love. Love possesses the enchanting ability to dispel negativity.

Reveal the best version of yourself.

Here's the real charm – you may not journey forever with this person.

Embrace the beauty of the moment; seize the opportunity to pour out everything you have (in a way that is consensual to yourself, and safe for you).

 It's a magical act of love, cuddles, kisses and affection, a chance to create something extraordinary. 

How to Be a Better Girlfriend: Nurturing Brilliance - Supporting His Dreams

9. Support His dreams

Sweetheart, be the rock for your partner, come what may. Let him stumble, but stand by his side, unwavering.

Anchor yourself in your own pillar of awareness, direction and joy.

Cheer him on as he chases his dreams.

He yearns to see that he brings joy to your world.

He dreams of being your pillar, the shield that guards and the one you depend on. 

Unlocking the Secrets: How to Be a Better Girlfriend – Because You Deserve that Overflow of Love Too 

10. You've got to receive that love too

Be brave and trust that the right person for you will truly cherish you.

They'll stand by your side, chase after you, and won't let you slip away.

There are wonderful beings out there ready to give you the love you deserve.

You don't need to settle for someone who can't share that sacred or safe space with you or be honest.

When you face challenges together, you'll emerge even stronger.


So, keep that brave heart of yours open to the magic that awaits! ✨

Crafting Connection: How to Be a Better Girlfriend by Mastering the Art of Giving Him Space 

How can I support my partner's personal growth?

11. Give him space

Nurture his freedom, just let him be let him chase after his dreams. be his support system, and embrace the journey together!

The Symphony of a Flourishing Relationship 

As we draw the curtains on our journey, remember, being a better girlfriend is about creating a symphony where every note you play resonates with love, understanding, and growth.

It's about dancing in the rain and finding joy in the sunshine, together. Let your relationship be a story of two souls journeying through life, hand in hand, heart in heart, creating a melody that echoes through time.

Embrace your journey with an open heart and a spirit of adventure, for in the realm of love, every moment is a chance to be better, to love deeper, and to grow together.

Watch my whole video on How to be a BETTER Girlfriend? 11 secrets!! y178? ✨ ?

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Frequently Asked Questions on How to be a better girlfriend

How can I improve communication with my partner?

Good communication is like the secret sauce in a relationship. First things first, listen actively—really hear what they're saying. Show some empathy, share your thoughts openly and honestly. It's not just about talking; it's about understanding each other.

What are some ways to show appreciation to my partner?

Little things matter, you know? A sincere thank you, a surprise note, or a thoughtful gift—these small gestures can speak volumes. Regularly saying thanks for both the big and small things strengthens the bond between you two.

How important is personal space in a relationship?

Personal space is like oxygen for a relationship—it's crucial. Give each other room to breathe and do your own thing, make your own breakthroughs. It's not about being apart; it's about growing individually, which makes your togetherness even better. Encourage those personal interests and hobbies!

How can we manage conflicts more constructively?

When conflicts pop up, aim to understand and resolve, not just to win. Keep it respectful, steer clear of personal attacks, and stick to the issue at hand. Taking a breather during heated moments can help you both approach the situation with a cooler head later on.

toss away the notion of right or wrong, and embrace the beauty of where you can find common ground - Cocreation - a topic I love supporting the people I work with. 

How can I support my partner's personal growth?

Be their biggest fan! Cheer them on, celebrate their wins, and be a rock during the tough times. Supporting each other's growth isn't just good for them; it's like a power-up for your relationship. Strong individuals make a stronger team, we already talked about this above 😉

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

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ABOUT YING HAN CHENG

International bestselling author, Speaker And Transformational Life & Business Innovation Coach.

Ying Han Cheng is a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the YOLO book and founder of YOLO Close the Gap Program.

Growing up internationally and as a third cultured kid, she integrates her multi-cultural and the inter-disciplinary awareness when coaching on topics including Identity and Purpose. With Ying Han's multi-cultural background, wide range of tools, and creative neutro-coaching techniques, she has helped leaders, entrepreneurs and change-makers to reach their highest potential.

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Growing up internationally and as a third cultured kid, she integrates her multi-cultural and the inter-disciplinary awareness when coaching on topics including Identity and Purpose. With Ying Han's multi-cultural background, wide range of tools, and creative neutro-coaching techniques, she has helped leaders, entrepreneurs and change-makers to reach their highest potential.

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How to Move On and Let Go

How to Move On and Let Go

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Letting go and moving on are two processes that are easy to say but are very difficult to do. Moving on is one thing and letting go is another, but these two usually come in pairs. One cannot simply move on and not let go. Because of this reason, a lot of times we find ourselves struggling to let go and pressured to move forward with not much success.

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The art of letting go is not a complicated process. The pitfall that usually gets most people during this process is the thought of releasing and turning your back away from the past. While it is true that you will lose many things, you also gain something more valuable which is yourself.

Moving on

In many ways, the saying “life goes on” really says it all. Whether it be in your career, relationships, or problems that you have to move on from, life will continue. 

There may be things that are painful to bear during this process, but the end process is well worth it. 

Moving on with your life includes putting the past behind you because these are the things slowing you down. 

They are like heavy pieces of baggage that will hinder you to progress.

Sometimes moving on is not about moving on from a bad place to a good place. When you’ve reached a certain level of awareness in your life, you may notice that where you are is not so bad after all - it’s comfortable.

However, something deep inside is screaming for a jump into the unknown, perhaps to take a risk or do something new that you’ve never really done before. Sometimes, this requires moving on from what you “know” into a future that is “unknown”.

This can be even more challenging to do than to move on from something that originated from a “problem”. Nevertheless, it is a call for you to bravely face the “calling” and step up and through to a bigger and brighter “you”.

Perhaps, this is one that is the version of you you have evolved to become.

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How Does Let Go Work

Part of the moving on process is letting go of the things that no longer healthy and not contributing to your growth and happiness. 

You may be wondering how does ‘let go’ actually work.

It starts by deciding that you really want to let go and move on. 

The moment you do, you can now identify the people, memories, past experiences and pains that you want to let go of. 

If you are still wondering how does ‘let go’ work after you identify them, the next steps are up to you. 

There are a lot of methods and ways that you can try. You can go to a life coach, listen to inspirational talks on how to move on and let go.

One of the most powerful ways to let go and move on is Meditation. The reason for this is because these experiences, while easily dealt with on a physical plane, are largely emotional. 

When it comes to moving on or letting go emotionally, a much gentler and kinder approach is required.

We’ve noticed that it’s only when we allow ourselves that space to truly see what it is we need to let go and move on from, is when this transformation occurs.

Meditation is one of the most supportive ways to allow this transformation to envelope you with a nourishing space to shift your perspective.

Meditation to Move On and Let Go

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#01 Letting go of the past, moving on, releasing meditation by the beach

No matter where you are in life, the past seduces and still hovers lost time in your unconscious. It has a very good way of enticing us to linger on and not move forward because it uses its advantage which is the emotional connection to your experiences. While it is beneficial to be looking at your past, it also can be in many time shackles that binds you. What works best is to pick up as much learning from your past and release it. There is really no point carrying something that is more of a burden than a support.

Letting go meditation helps you release all of that. In this video I’ll show you exactly how to let go and move on by releasing the past that holds you:

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#02 If you want to move on, watch this! 3 Keys for Successful Moving On

The main objective of trying to move on and let go is of course be successful doing it. Moving on (from your ex, from your past, from stress) is one of the hardest things to do, especially if you've been hurt or something is disappointing you. While part of you want to fight for it and try even harder, sometimes calling it quits is much more beneficial and healthy.

In this video we share 3 incredible points to help you and your body move on from the past (connection). We soothe the connection and unplug it gently, while allowing it to be released.

#03 If you’ve had a friend, lover or person betray you, watch this!

Bitterness can swallow you when a friend betrays you. Even when it is a love betrayal and you're betrayed in love, the residue of the pain, confusion and punch in the stomach of self worth (visible and invisible) takes a huge toll on us.

Especially when you're being betrayed by someone you love, the energy and memory of it can disrupt your entire week, month and even years and decades down the lines.

When you're not aware and mindful of the repercussions of these betrayals in relationships and friendships, you can easily act out in rage and anger... Or implode and feel sad.

Either way, it does not fully allow you to be free, and instead, chains you down even more to this unpleasant pattern and experience. Betrayal of trust is a really difficult situation to be in and can be emotionally draining, but meditation helps in managing your emotions and keeping them in check.

Watch the video to learn how you can rise from this, find the opposite of betrayal, and stop the story of bitterness within.

#04 How to let go of someone you love, without rebounding

Out of sight does not equal out of mind. How to gain control of your mind and truly let go of someone so that the thought of them doesn't revisit, cause pain, anxiety or drag you down is usually a question we try to answer. Understand the best ways to do this!

Heal from breakup, friendship breakup, obsessions, obsessive thoughts, etc!

Being able to manage your mind and emotions allows you to be more present, more connected and available for NEWER or BETTER connections to form. Without truly letting go, it will be hard to re-trust someone.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

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ABOUT YING HAN CHENG

International bestselling author, Speaker And Transformational Life & Business Innovation Coach.

Ying Han Cheng is a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the YOLO book and founder of YOLO Close the Gap Program.

Growing up internationally and as a third cultured kid, she integrates her multi-cultural and the inter-disciplinary awareness when coaching on topics including Identity and Purpose. With Ying Han's multi-cultural background, wide range of tools, and creative neutro-coaching techniques, she has helped leaders, entrepreneurs and change-makers to reach their highest potential.

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Ying Han Cheng is a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the YOLO book and founder of YOLO Close the Gap Program.

Growing up internationally and as a third cultured kid, she integrates her multi-cultural and the inter-disciplinary awareness when coaching on topics including Identity and Purpose. With Ying Han's multi-cultural background, wide range of tools, and creative neutro-coaching techniques, she has helped leaders, entrepreneurs and change-makers to reach their highest potential.

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How To Get Clients [Chapter 6]

One of the most fun and complex decisions you can make is nailing down who your YOLO client is. In this section, we’ll get connected and learn how to get clients.

Identifying your YOLO clients will:

•Allow you to speak directly to them and allow your ideal clients to find you more easily

•Allow you to be more specialized in your offer to solve their specific issues and charge higher prices

•Allow others to refer you more easily (the more unique your YOLO client is, the more you stand out and are memorable)

How To Get Clients 

Nevertheless, it is okay to switch and continuously narrow your segment of audience (niche) and it is not uncommon for people to go through multiple “niche switches” until they find the right fit with their offerings and clients.

Step 1: Identify Who/What Lights You Up The Most

There are many ways you can go about identifying your target niche, and it all comes down to what lights you up the most (which you’ll be intrinsically inspired to stick with the longest)

Pick one of these: 

A.Inspiration: who inspires you the most?

B. A problem you feel CALLED to solve 

C. A big, urgent problem you just can’t stop thinking about 

Ultimately, it’s okay not to choose. It’s okay to spend the next couple of years interacting with different groups of people and see who you really enjoy. But again, getting an idea in the early stages of who you’d like to contribute to (or recalibrating if your current clientele no longer lights you up) will assist your confidence, motivation, and profitability.

Step 2: Capitalize On Your YOLO Strengths

What would it take to share your skills with more people while bringing you a life of more freedom, fun, connection, and abundance?

•What personal or professional challenges have you gone through that you would like to support others in?

•Why do people come to you? What do they naturally seek your advice on? 

If this is your first business, you will take the next six months to hone your muscles as an entrepreneur and learn valuable skills to execute your ideas.

If you’re a seasoned entrepreneur and find that the customers you’re serving are no longer inspiring you, you can consider honing in and better serving the clients who are raving fans of yours already, or finding out how you can better serve the ones you love working with.

Step 3: Engage And Get Feedback From Your YOLO Client!

Just like dating, the more clients you have, the clearer you are about what you want and what you don’t want, who you love working with and who you can provide the most results for.

The beauty about doing this exercise is training your mind to focus on the qualities, characteristics, and nature of your YOLO clients.

Business and work is about relationships, right? The more you place your attention on what you do want, the more it shows up. (And the opposite is true too: the more you complain about what you don’t want, the more the complaints bring up similar incidents.)

As an entrepreneur, once you have identified who your YOLO client is, stick with it for a product launch. See the response and feedback before moving on. In the next section we will identify what your YOLO offer is.

If you haven’t made your YOLO client list yet, I highly recommend going back and jotting that down, as this will seamlessly lead to the next section where you’ll be creating offers or projects to involve your favorite YOLO clients! 

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3 Steps to Live Life to The Fullest [Chapter 2 Your YOLO Lifestyle ]

In this blog post , we will dive into how to begin constructing a fulfilling YOLO Lifestyle—by YOUR definition and we will be discussing what it means to live life to the fullest!

If you’re thinking, I’m already living my YOLO Lifestyle, I challenge you to think again. Some very successful corporate clients lived what they believed was their YOLO Lifestyle: taking every chance they could to take luxurious, exotic vacations, only to find that upon their return, their “Monday Blues” had gone shades darker and they were counting down the days until their next escape fix.

So many times we set out to live a successful life based on the things we think will bring us joy, and yet when we get there, it’s not all that is described.

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Creating your own playbook of success is a trial and error process that has components that target your insides just as much as the external manifestation and result. So lets jump right in!

Introducing: You Only Live Once (YOLO) Lifestyle

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I’ve been alluding to this YOLO concept, but what exactly is it? If you’re unfamiliar The phrase "YOLO" gained popularity in 2012 with the song "The Motto" by Drake. It’s a concept often associated with heavy drinking and a glorified excuse for choosing fun above all else.

I take a less flippant approach to this.

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Have you ever seriously considered who you’d be, what purpose you’d have, what life you’d lead, if you weren’t doing what you’re doing right now?

Imagine you are on your death bed. Are you happy with how your life turned out? Did you live a life that was absolutely YOURS?

If you had all of the skills, confidence, and opportunities available to you, what would you do with your life?

Step 1: 

Get Into Your YOLO State

Imagine being transported to the reality where you are truly experiencing your YOLO Life. Imagine taking your first conscious breath in the morning as your alarm rings and slowly opening your eyelids with a soft smile on your face, happy for the day ahead.

Is it possible to live a You Only Live Once (YOLO) Lifestyle right now?

Step 2:

Create Your YOLO Happy List

Think about your last few years. How much have you grown as a person? How much more meaning and impact have you had with those around you? Are you happier?

I had a corporate job but I wasn't happy with my life.

I decided to take responsibility and decided that instead of feeling dejected, every time I wanted something more, I was going to capture that on a list.

The list was on Google Docs!

Soon, something magical happened.

Every time I put something in, I looked at what was in there before and I was accomplishing those. This list soon became a list of 133 items and the biggest capturer of everything that has crossed my mind that I want to do.

"Whenever I feel absolutely uninspired, I go back to that list and find something I am excited about and set out to do that.

It is one of the simplest ideas, and it WORKS"

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My list gave me a place to track my progress in life, honoring my OWN definition of success

The list gave me a place to acknowledge how far I’ve come. I didn’t know it at that time, but if I had to pinpoint the single system with most impact that I’ve used in my life to create a ton of breakthroughs, experiences, and get my YOLO Lifestyle and business, this is it!

Step 3:

Knocking Your YOLO Items Off Your List Right Now!

You have no idea how many amazing, ass-kicking people I meet who say, “I don’t want to do everything at once,” or “What if I run out of things?” This is a classic fear of the unknown or fear of success situation.

In one way it’s completely true, right? If you eat all of your M&Ms, you’ll have none left. 

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Another fear that people have when executing their YOLO Happy Lists is exactly that: your dreams will get bigger and bigger and how on earth are you going to quench the thirst of this hungry you.

Well, the one thing that I know is that these ideas and inspirations often come from our higher selves.

3 Steps to Live Life to the Fullest

Just like what we discussed earlier about states, you can achieve the vibrational and emotional frequency of the state that you’re looking at and wishing for right now!

These have been the 3 steps to living life to the fullest!

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

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Growing up internationally and as a third cultured kid, she integrates her multi-cultural and the inter-disciplinary awareness when coaching on topics including Identity and Purpose. With Ying Han's multi-cultural background, wide range of tools, and creative neutro-coaching techniques, she has helped leaders, entrepreneurs and change-makers to reach their highest potential.

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Do What You Want To Do [YOLO Vision Chapter 3]

If you could fulfill and see ONE vision through, make ONE difference in your life, what would that be?What would that be for you and for the world? In this blog we will talk about the importance of doing what you want to do and you’ll answer these two questions:

  1. What’s my vision?
  2. What would it take to make it happen?

Do What You Want To Do

Your vision picks you up when times are hard, and when you get out of touch with it, you feel lost.

How do you create a crystal-clear vision that engages all of your manifestation powers?

Through harnessing your emotions.

Characteristics of a YOLO vision:

Knowing crystal-clearly where you are today (be completely honest with yourself!)

  • Knowing crystal-clearly where you want to be
  • Get very close to your big why, what that brings you, and why that’s so meaningful and fulfilling to you
  • Have your vision emotionally move you
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What Do You Want?

You can’t measure your progress or success unless you know where you are today and where you want to be.

Pick one area below, rate it out of 10, and jot down everything that is important to you in that area to make it a 10/10.

  1. YOLO Career and Money
  2. YOLO Relationship and Intimacy
  3. YOLO Health and Wellness
  4. YOLO Freedom (i.e. Travel)
  5. YOLO Education
  6. YOLO Personal Growth and Spirituality

Write this down, record it on your phone, capture it!

Who Do You Need To Be In Order To Access What You Truly Want To Say YES To?

As you probably already know, your brain is programmed to keep you safe, to keep you within a routine where it knows you’re safe, and to keep you away from drastic changes or imaginations that take you out of that safety zone.

While it has amazing qualities of analysis, critical thinking abilities, and rationalizations, using your brain alone will not solve the problem of discovering your vision that truly aligns with, excites, resonates with, and drives you.

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If accessing solutions from another state of being holds more truth and possibility than accessing the answer from where you currently are, would you want to check that state out?

That is, to get into the energetic BEING of the place.

You have the tools to do it!

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YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

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Growing up internationally and as a third cultured kid, she integrates her multi-cultural and the inter-disciplinary awareness when coaching on topics including Identity and Purpose. With Ying Han's multi-cultural background, wide range of tools, and creative neutro-coaching techniques, she has helped leaders, entrepreneurs and change-makers to reach their highest potential.

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Ying Han Cheng is a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the YOLO book and founder of YOLO Close the Gap Program.

Growing up internationally and as a third cultured kid, she integrates her multi-cultural and the inter-disciplinary awareness when coaching on topics including Identity and Purpose. With Ying Han's multi-cultural background, wide range of tools, and creative neutro-coaching techniques, she has helped leaders, entrepreneurs and change-makers to reach their highest potential.

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