11 Secrets on How to Be a Better Girlfriend

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If you want to make your relationship stronger, healthier and happier, don’t just wish for your guy to be a better man but also work yourself to be a better girl.

Want to know more secrets on how to keep your relationship  strong and healthy? here’s to being the best girlfriend ever!

#1 Have your own life

Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to be reliant. Healthy relationships are about two independent people who decide to share their lives and build a relationship together.

Your life is not your boyfriend, your life is your life. The reason he's attracted to you is totally because you are happy going after what you wanted and having your life.

Sometimes the biggest mistake that people make once they are in a relationship, is they start stopping things that they actually enjoy and putting all the burden on the other person.

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#2 Make yourself happy

You have the power to make yourself happy.

It's not his responsibility to make you happy and it should never be that way.

Don't ever count on someone else to give you happiness, make your own! It's not his job description.

If you can make yourself happy and he's making himself happy, and you come together and you multiply that happiness. It's so much easier and much more comfortable that way.

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 #3 Make yourself orgasm

Make yourself have the best orgasm you can ever have. You've got to take control of your own pleasure in your body and allowing yourself to feel that down there, allow yourself to feel it. 

Be a better girlfriend by knowing your body, how you respond to touch and how you can train yourself to create more of these pleasurable experiences so that he can see you pleasured by yourself and that turns him on tremendously.

#4 Be honest and vulnerable

"The Difference Between Honesty & Vulnerability is that honesty is about speaking the truth, while vulnerability is about speaking openly in a way that could put you at risk of getting disappointed, let down, judged, or hurt."

If you are not feeling good about something at any moment in time, be honest, own it and tell it.

#5 Be Direct about your feelings

There's so many people that give silent treatment. Why waste energy or time? Just be direct, be courageous, be brave in own your emotions.

If you're mad at something, talk about it and figure out a way to resolve it. Unless, you want to carry all this negativity around you for a long time.

But if your goal is to stay positive, happy and healthy do yourself a favor and directly communicate your feelings by being open and respectful. Honor other people's opinion as well if you want to be a better girlfriend.

#6 Response vs. Reaction

Whenever you get triggered by your boyfriend or by another friend, instead of responding straight away by screaming - just take some time and don't react in a way that affects other people.

Take a deep breath, release and breath again.

When you are going through a hard time and you have a lot of emotions, don't spew it on other people and take responsibility for your energy.

Do your part to resolve it and once you resolve it then you'll be in a much better place to approach him. Just be honest about it, be open and have direct communication. 

#7 See yourself as a team

You're in this relationship as a team, you are on a team and facing the world together.

Don't fight against each other, don't say who’s right or wrong. What matters is you are going in the same direction together.

#8 Lots of kisses cuddles

Understand five levels of love languages, give them freely if that’s what will make you so happy.

Even if you're mad at someone, give love to them. Love really does cure a lot of negativity and show your best love that you can.

You might never be with this person forever and it's so beautiful to be able to just take the opportunity to give everything you have.

#9 Support His dreams

Be that person who supports your partner no matter what, let him fall and just be there for him.

He wants to know that he can please you.

He wanted to be the person who you depend on, they want to be protecting you and they want to be the one who guards you.

#10 You've got to receive that love too

Be brave and know that the person who's meant to be with you will love you.

They will stand up for you, they will chase you, they will not let you go and there are people out there who will give that to you.

You don't deserve someone who's not able to hold that space with you or be honest with you. If you’re gonna be working through this together, you'll become even stronger.

#11 Give him space

Give him freedom, just let him be let him chase after his dreams. Support his dreams and do what that is.

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After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

YOLO Team - with Hani

After self healing from a 15 year battle with a disease, Hani has distilled the most important learnings into a multi-cultural Bestselling Author of the You Only Live Once book and now, with her team, supports leaders, change makers, and impact driven entrepreneurs to build sustainable career and businesses so that they can contribute at their highest level. She supports holistic transformations through strategy, personal growth and practical spirituality (mindfulness). The YUMMY Team’s clients span USA, Asia, Africa, Europe, and South America. They are sought after by clients and partners like Singapore Management University, Chamber of Commerce’s, Lululemon, HER Global Network, Festivals, talks and private coaching. The YOLO programs have spread across 350+ media outlets including ABC, NBC, FOX, BBC, and Forum of the Future. Prior to coaching, Hani managed global digital marketing teams at Ogilvy & Mather. She also holds a Masters of Science degree in Innovation, is a Master NLP practitioner and has been a part of Stanford and Claremont Mckenna College.

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